Thursday, July 18, 2019

Disposable love and relationships

"And They Lived Happily After" is a very romantic and irrealistic "Happy end" to a love story which is part, nowadays, only to the "Fairy Tale" movies and novels.

There are a lot of descriptions for a true love in the literature, but no one is so simple and perfect as in the Bible:
( "Inspired by God Himself") - 1 Corinthians 13:4-7)

"Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."

This is really an amazing and a wonderful full description of love.
The main goal of every human being is to be happy. Even the worst person in the World wants to be happy in the end.
But we are living upon a time, an age or a Century where the "Pledges or Vows of Eternal Love" is totally superficial, empty and ephemeral.

We "change of love" as if we were changing of clothes and all the words above have no meaning in a relationship which is totally empty leading people to frustation and unhappiness, and many are getting depressive in this sick society full of "disposable love" and relationships.

Is a spat enough to break up and not keep this or any relationship with "patience, kindness, love and perseverance" as described above?

It is not worth to keep it when it is with a very "toxic person".
When you are with someone who is totally paranoic.
Also totally neurotic, unable to respec any other different opinion or point of view with a strong arrogance as an "absolute owner of the truth".
And when this people can also be very agressive, including physically. Yes, there are women like this and they love to make themselves the victms.
Thank God these women are not the majority.

Where is this love we are supposed to feel and fight for with Perseverance and Patience to keep it?
"Why can we change it so easily?
Have we became "insensitive"

If this is like this, so this is clearly the "Involution" of our behaviour pattern.

What should we do so that these words can be real in our lives and love indeed?
And not empity words after all?

We should or must learn and know the difference between Freedom and Debauchery,

Unfortunatelly not everyone will overcome all the negativity of the present days because they are already sick and taken by this empty life of "disposable relations and feelings".
This is no "Emotional Evolution of the Species" at all.

Instead of loving each or one another people are used to boost their own Ego and so they/ we end up in this "sick endless cirle" always searching for a true love or a steady relationshiop.

But never is too late to believe in "They Lived Happily After" and write it in your own love story.

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