Nothing on Earth worth more while than enjoying your own life and everything you do.
Life would be much easier and happier to those unhappy ones who hardly can enjoy their own lives.
If there's something you are deeply in love with or can't live without, this is something you must do: your best in order to get it.
Not to fight for "material and supeficial things" that's not important at all.
Life is much more than a nice house and car.
The story of Midas, the king, is a perfect and wonderful "tale" to show us this.
Nobody can be really happy if they don't do what they wish indeed. It doesn't matter how rich you are.
I've seen many people who stopped doing what they were used to living in big cities, with a very "confortable life", and going to live by the Sea or in the country side changing totally their
"Modus Faciendi" (your way of life).
They became much happier and this is the most important in the end. No money in the world is worthy it.
This is my simple list.
This is what I really deeply love and care about:
This is what really makes me very happy.
1) The Sea, Nature
2) Piano
3) Literature
4) Walking a lot
5) Martial Arts
6) Travel
7) Women
8) My family.
What is yours?
Doing what you love the most indeed is priceless.
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Friday, July 26, 2019
Tuesday, July 23, 2019
Everlasting love
Does love last forever?
This is such a big question. Maybe the answer is not only one. It depends on many things.
We can see many people around the world celebrating their "silver and golden weddings" (25th, 50th wedding anniversary) and they say they still love each other.
What's the "secret" then to achieve this and make it last forever?
The majority of them say that you need Patience and respect above all.
And though I haven't experienced this yet, I could say they are right, otherwise this could never be achivied or reached by all this people who did.
I am "quite sure" it won't be possible for this and future generations, seeing that we became "intolerant" and superficial.
But despite this I strongly believe love can last forever for a few lucky people.
Unfortunately we've lost this magic and powerful feeling.
Let's hope we can get it back someday.
Let's believe that's possible for our "lost generation.
We only need to believe.
This is such a big question. Maybe the answer is not only one. It depends on many things.
We can see many people around the world celebrating their "silver and golden weddings" (25th, 50th wedding anniversary) and they say they still love each other.
What's the "secret" then to achieve this and make it last forever?
The majority of them say that you need Patience and respect above all.
And though I haven't experienced this yet, I could say they are right, otherwise this could never be achivied or reached by all this people who did.
I am "quite sure" it won't be possible for this and future generations, seeing that we became "intolerant" and superficial.
But despite this I strongly believe love can last forever for a few lucky people.
Unfortunately we've lost this magic and powerful feeling.
Let's hope we can get it back someday.
Let's believe that's possible for our "lost generation.
We only need to believe.
Thursday, July 18, 2019
Disposable love and relationships
"And They Lived Happily After" is a very romantic and irrealistic
"Happy end" to a love story which is part, nowadays, only to the "Fairy
Tale" movies and novels.
There are a lot of descriptions for a true love in the literature, but no one is so simple and perfect as in the Bible:
( "Inspired by God Himself") - 1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
"Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
This is really an amazing and a wonderful full description of love.
The main goal of every human being is to be happy. Even the worst person in the World wants to be happy in the end.
But we are living upon a time, an age or a Century where the "Pledges or Vows of Eternal Love" is totally superficial, empty and ephemeral.
We "change of love" as if we were changing of clothes and all the words above have no meaning in a relationship which is totally empty leading people to frustation and unhappiness, and many are getting depressive in this sick society full of "disposable love" and relationships.
Is a spat enough to break up and not keep this or any relationship with "patience, kindness, love and perseverance" as described above?
It is not worth to keep it when it is with a very "toxic person".
When you are with someone who is totally paranoic.
Also totally neurotic, unable to respec any other different opinion or point of view with a strong arrogance as an "absolute owner of the truth".
And when this people can also be very agressive, including physically. Yes, there are women like this and they love to make themselves the victms.
Thank God these women are not the majority.
Where is this love we are supposed to feel and fight for with Perseverance and Patience to keep it?
"Why can we change it so easily?
Have we became "insensitive"
If this is like this, so this is clearly the "Involution" of our behaviour pattern.
What should we do so that these words can be real in our lives and love indeed?
And not empity words after all?
We should or must learn and know the difference between Freedom and Debauchery,
Unfortunatelly not everyone will overcome all the negativity of the present days because they are already sick and taken by this empty life of "disposable relations and feelings".
This is no "Emotional Evolution of the Species" at all.
Instead of loving each or one another people are used to boost their own Ego and so they/ we end up in this "sick endless cirle" always searching for a true love or a steady relationshiop.
But never is too late to believe in "They Lived Happily After" and write it in your own love story.
There are a lot of descriptions for a true love in the literature, but no one is so simple and perfect as in the Bible:
( "Inspired by God Himself") - 1 Corinthians 13:4-7)
"Love is patient, love is kind, it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."
This is really an amazing and a wonderful full description of love.
The main goal of every human being is to be happy. Even the worst person in the World wants to be happy in the end.
But we are living upon a time, an age or a Century where the "Pledges or Vows of Eternal Love" is totally superficial, empty and ephemeral.
We "change of love" as if we were changing of clothes and all the words above have no meaning in a relationship which is totally empty leading people to frustation and unhappiness, and many are getting depressive in this sick society full of "disposable love" and relationships.
Is a spat enough to break up and not keep this or any relationship with "patience, kindness, love and perseverance" as described above?
It is not worth to keep it when it is with a very "toxic person".
When you are with someone who is totally paranoic.
Also totally neurotic, unable to respec any other different opinion or point of view with a strong arrogance as an "absolute owner of the truth".
And when this people can also be very agressive, including physically. Yes, there are women like this and they love to make themselves the victms.
Thank God these women are not the majority.
Where is this love we are supposed to feel and fight for with Perseverance and Patience to keep it?
"Why can we change it so easily?
Have we became "insensitive"
If this is like this, so this is clearly the "Involution" of our behaviour pattern.
What should we do so that these words can be real in our lives and love indeed?
And not empity words after all?
We should or must learn and know the difference between Freedom and Debauchery,
Unfortunatelly not everyone will overcome all the negativity of the present days because they are already sick and taken by this empty life of "disposable relations and feelings".
This is no "Emotional Evolution of the Species" at all.
Instead of loving each or one another people are used to boost their own Ego and so they/ we end up in this "sick endless cirle" always searching for a true love or a steady relationshiop.
But never is too late to believe in "They Lived Happily After" and write it in your own love story.
Holidays in the Island
When you are supposed to meet up someone you know but you end up spending all your time with someone who came down from Heaven.
A good person always meet nice people everywhere.
A German Muse!!
A good person always meet nice people everywhere.
A German Muse!!
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